Congrats Your Married Messages My Friend Got Married And Has Not Told Me, Should I Ask Him?

My friend got married and has not told me, should i ask him? - congrats your married messages

I have a boyfriend, husband, wife, chat friends, platonic been for about 7 years, very good friends .. He married last year and has never said never, I was invited to the wedding. I was shocked because I thought it was a friend .. HHI friend told me in an instant when promised, and sent an instant message to congratulate you and I, of course, completely destroyed, I tried to make plans was always busy, so I just ignored for a year and a half .. also online
Hes kick instant messages are not aplogized to contact me, I asked what happened, he says, his life is crazy, as he flirts with me online, what kind of freaking I'm not saying "eww" ... I waited to talk about their marriage and not ... He asked me last week in line for lunch just told me he was preoccupied with another at a time.
I feel like HES secrecy and try something on the side of me I do wrong? When I come and ask him.